Sunday, July 19, 2009

Girls Stand your guards

When a guy says he loves you. Watch what he does. That's when you know he's sincere. Don't believe every word he says. Guys mostly speak through their actions. That's when they are really sincere.
"Watch what he does, not what he says" Jat

When a guy leaves you. Let him be. Respect his choice. Just give him the space that he needs. Don't beg for him to stay, because obviously he made his mind up. Never show any desperation signs to the guy. This will just show how vulnerable you are. Seriously, you are stronger than that. Keep your dignity.

Never try to make the guy like you. This is not the way to go. Where's your dignity? If the guy likes you, he'll do what ever it takes for you to notice him. Your job is to look cute yet sophisticated, bubbly yet daring. If he likes you, he'll notice you. Seriously.
"There is no such things as making a guy like you. They'll like you if they like you" Dal.

Never go for the pity way. It's bad enough that you feel bad about yourself. You don't want a relationship where he is in it because he feels bad for you .Where he's in it because of he feels guilty and he pities you. Don't ever pity yourself. Stop if you do. We are stronger than that. Think more "we can do something about it." No more kesian aku. No more pity me. More yes I can. More I can do so much better.
"no more! why do you think they have woman's day? that is to show that women have pride just as equivalent to men, men don't cave so can women!" Pah.

YES WE ARE!!!!!
WE ARE STRONG
WE ARE MUSLIMAH!! -Wise words from the triplets.

Lots of love,
Blackbuterfly

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